Pure Intimacy: A resource for those struggling with online pornography and affairs.

"Hi. My name is James, and I'm an addict."

I have found out recently that my husband visits a lot of porn websites. This fact in itself was not so disturbing, but when I add all his behaviors together, it think there is trouble.

My question is this. Does anyone know the percentage of men who are into pornography, who go onto have affairs?

My husband and I do not have much sex. I initially thought that since he is getting older (45), his sex drive is probably waning. However, now knowing that he enjoys all this pornography tells me that he has a problem with me, not with sex.